Is Love Sufficient to Sustain a relationship

I love you till the end of time. I will never stop loving you. I love you still the rocks erode.. These are expressions of one pledging their love for another. Love is a 4 letter that means lot to some and it may also means a time to take advantage of the other party..

Love or Lust? Committed or to take advantage of the the person in love. When you fall in love... it last forever.... it moves mountains and cross the ocean..I cross the ocean for the one you love.

The door is open and you enter into a relationship you. You enter the relationship willingly. There was no sign indicated that trespasser will be prosecuted. Love makes you feel giddy headed and day dreams of things that you would do together, a walk by the beach eaching off each other's fingers and sharing a hot dog, riding a bike together.. When all is done and all that is said it would come to a time of silence... a deafing silence when each is doing things on their own. Communication cease. Each party maybe doing things differently reading a book by yourself, and the other party may seem busy on the computer maybe chatting up another party..

Then comes a time when each words seems to turn into irritation rather then a sense of love and concern.. One would find it unbearable with the heartache of argument begins...

hmmmm how do you guage a relationship ... shall we use the Product Life Cyle to analyse a relationship.

How shall we do this ... Assuming that Love is a product and the 2party are the consumers
Love is the product consumed by the two parties. It is a free market and they met a place that is condusive to fall in love. The price they pay for this relationship that is time spending together or they can do something else better. Promotion... the communication between both parties to know each other better . So that is the basic 4 Ps of market

Place, Product, Promotion and Price

So in the begining they the product launch between the two parties met at place it was introduction and getting to know each other better through a series of dating is the growth stage and they when a relationship proceeds to a marriage it has reached maturity and when it ends up in a divorce or a then the relationship turns sour it has reached the declining stage. So in order to prolong the life of the you would need to inject more actiivities or let the relationship reached it declining stage and look for other alternative products to re-enter the market. Well there are more to it ... I have not talk about the BCG whereby you would analyse if it is a cow or do or a star.... Come back for more

Similarity of Air and Money

In one of my speeches that I have done for my Toastermasters' club. I spoke about the air and money. This was done at the NCS toastmaster club in 2003. For those who have not heard my speech on the topic. Here is a little insight of the speech whereby I have put the relevance of Money and air. Money is not everything but it is essential. So is Air.... Polluted air leads to illness and so are money earned through illegal means would lead to problems at a later stage.

Both cases has pocketed 10 million.



Here are a few examples.


Singapore Straits Times Friday January 20, 2006 (Home section)

Ex-finance and admisntration executivew actions drived by 'pure greed' says DPP; women sentenced to 10 years' jail.


And yet another case from the Star January 13 2006.

Ex-director accused of pocketing RM13.1mil
A FORMER company director has been charged with misappropriating company funds totalling US$3.47mil (RM13.1mil).

Malaysian Lee Ee Teong, 43, is claiming trial to 15 charges.
He was first produced in court last month for misappropriating US$685,000 (RM2.5mil) and US$335,000 (RM1.2mil) from BJ Services Company (Singapore) on Sept 13, 2001, when he was a director of the company.

On Wednesday, 13 more similar charges were filed against him for alleged offences committed when he was a director of that company as well as of BJ Services Company (Australia) and Oilfield Chemicals Trading, one of the subsidiaries.

The alleged offences occurred in Singapore between August 2000 and November 2001.
BJ Services, a listed company in the New York Stock Exchange, provides pumping, pipeline and other oilfield services.

Lee, a Singapore permanent resident and qualified chartered accountant, joined the company about eight years ago. He resigned in September 2004.
He was offered bail of S$1.5mil (RM3.3mil) last month, but could not raise the amount. So he was remanded.

His lawyer, Sant Singh, requested that bail be reduced to S$200,000 (RM444,854).
Lee, who came under investigation for a missing US$10mil (RM37.8mil) sum, had already paid back US$9mil (RM34mil) well before the investigation started, said Sant Singh.
District Judge Malcolm Tan reduced bail to S$820,000 (RM1.8mil). – The Straits Times / Asia News Network

Love has the equivilence to Money

Love is just only a four letter word but it has great powers. Many people associate Love as a value. When one is love by the opposite sex, he or she feels contented. He/she may feel that she is on top of the world and feel that they get along with others very well. It gives self confidence.

Those who have fallen out of love feel that they have lost confidence. Life is empty without Love and he/she feels that they are of no value and of inferior quality and therefore they are dropped.

However that is not true...if you understand my explanation and see my point.
Assuming that you are a hundred dollar note. The owner has dropped you in a remote area and no one was there and no one picks it up. That doesnt mean that the hundred dollar note does not has it value of a 100. It is just that there was no one there to appreciate the value of the hundred dollar note.

Same philosophy here, if you are dropped by your girlfriend or boyfriend it doesnt mean that you have less value then others. Just that no one saw the real value in you.. Have a good weekend..

Didnt Start the Year 2006 Right

So I predict that I would be very lonely this year. While having my shower after my swim. I was thinking of adopting a pet. I didnt know what kind of pet I should keep. I dont really like dogs cos some dogs can smell terrible and it makes the whole house stinks.

A hamster, I thought but they are like bunnies they multiply terribly fast. hmmm how about a cat ... meow not bad an idea ... cos dont need to bath them and dont stinks so much like dogs.

On the second thought since i didnt start my year right, i shouldnt keep a cat because the cat is the animal that has always been discrimated ... errrr why i say that

When you have cheated in a test or exam the term in cantonese is call "letting the cat out" (chut mau"

When you cheat in a game it is call "Lai mau" cunning cat.

When you are frame you call it "eating the dead cat" (sek sei mau)

When you see a person is dirty or untidy you call that person "Wu cho-oh mau" dirty cat

So therefore cat wont be a good pet for me this year...

If you have any idea of what pets to keep, pls keep me inform... good nite